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Sheila (of Ephemera)'s avatar

Oh, the perfect wrap up sentence.💕 I love this:

Haters gonna hate; taters gonna tate.

My favourite method of dealing with haters is to kill ‘em with kindness-it drives them crazy!😜

Awesome read, thank you!

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Robin Wilding's avatar

Yup, killing them with kindness normally drives them nuts, which is at least entertaining for us hehe

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Sheila (of Ephemera)'s avatar

I try not to use my powers for evil but sometimes it’s hard to resist.😁

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Tim Ebl 🇨🇦's avatar

I don't run into too many haters. But when I do, I try to smile to myself and say silently, "Silly little guy!" Or out loud in extreme cases, but be warned, that will make them hate you even more!

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Robin Wilding's avatar

Don't poke the hater potatoes 😆

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Jan M. Flynn's avatar

LOVE this!

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Sean McCoy Writes's avatar

What other people think of me is none of my business.

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Robin Wilding's avatar

True. It's also none of theirs.

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Nicole Peery's avatar

Picturing them as angry stick figures with squiggly green stink lines is my new go-to coping mechanism.

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Robin Wilding's avatar

It's proven an effective strategy for me hehe

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Gabriela Trofin-Tatár's avatar

This is gold and somehow super motivating! I especially liked the “haters are my motivators” motto.😃 Ha! Hatorade 🤣 still can’t get that one out of my mind 😂

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Robin Wilding's avatar

Yup, they're motivators. It just makes me say 'Watch me' like Usher hehe

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Laurie's avatar

Thank you, Robin. I sent this to my sister who is really struggling with a coworker who seems bent on making her days miserable. I loved your line about not taking criticism from a person that you would take advice from.

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Robin Wilding's avatar

OOh I love hearing somebody sent a piece to their family/friends. I hope it helps your sister, because those situations certainly suck.

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Jo Taylor's avatar

Robin you are very good at this writing thing. "Hatorade" made me spit my coffee. Have a great no-hater day!

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Robin Wilding's avatar

Aww thank Jo! I wish I could take credit for Hatorade, I heard that a long time ago and it's lived rent-free in my head every since.

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Larry Huber's avatar

Robin, you have some of the best, practical content. You have great commenters too. That's a special kind of love.

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Robin Wilding's avatar

Thanks Larry. I really do get the best commenters and readers!!! I've had to learn to deal with them being funnier than me though haha.

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Baker Beth's avatar

Lovely alliteration-multiple times. 😊

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Paul Riddell's avatar

I used to have a guy who watched everything I wrote and loudly complained to editors and publishers “Why is he employed?” I learned a long time ago not only not to engage, but just step back and let them dance a 45-minute tarantella on their own dicks. It’s AMAZING how well he did when he got his own magazine column…which led to the magazine going under.

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Freeq O’Nature's avatar

“…taxidermy is more effective…”. 😂

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John Horwitz's avatar

Well, bless your heart!

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Adi Melkic [Mel-kitsch]'s avatar

One of my haters, before the internet, wrote ‘Adi is a conceited fool from Zacretje’ (my hometown) on a bathroom wall in a café. I remember being beyond excited and proud. Haters really are great motivators! 😊

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Robin Wilding's avatar

I guess it would. But you could do worse than being a Madonna fan hehe

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